Something
frequently overlooked is that we also need to serve ourselves from time to
time. To be honest, whenever we serve others, we are also serving ourselves,
because we are them. However, each of us is also the custodian of a physical
body, which needs regular care and attention.
Sometimes we
need to rest, have a holiday, make a healthy meal for ourselves or do some
exercise; and sometimes we have to do these things at the expense of directly
serving others. This is not selfish; this is purely practical.
If we
overwork to the point where our health suffers then we will not be able to
serve as effectively, and our bodies, in an act of self-preservation, will
eventually force us to rest anyway. Resting today may be necessary to serve
more effectively tomorrow.
Furthermore,
we should be open to opportunities to have fun and enjoy life. We deserve the
rewards we've earned through our service and right actions, and what's more,
laughter, fun and relaxation are fundamental catalysts for forgiveness and
healing.
As we heal ourselves,
we heal the world. If someone invites us to spend a day on a boat or to go up
in a balloon, or if we get an idea to take a drive out to the country, it's
always worth being open to these ideas.
We may learn
something unexpected that takes us in a new direction or that will be useful in
the future, it may simply cheer us up and refresh us so we can be more
effective tomorrow, it may help us see a certain problem from a different
perspective or it may simply be God's way of saying “thanks”. Sometimes it's
all these!
Learning to love yourself is the greatest love of all.
– Whitney Houston